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What I Love Most About Us: Meet the Trio of Darla, Sammy & Julia

Sunday, September 5th, 2010

Darla, Sammy and Julia: Seems like we’ve been friends forever, right?

Well … the honest answer is yes AND no.

NO, we haven’t been friends forever. We actually haven’t even been friends for a year. Sammy will have known Darla for a year this November. We all met as a trio in January.

But then again … YES, we have been friends forever. Or at least, it certainly feels like it. Maybe that’s because when you’re working tirelessly to take a dream to a vision to a blog to a pitch tape to a [*fingers crossed*] TV show … well, you get pretty close pretty fast with all of those BBMs, phone calls, emails, meetings and mini road trips back and forth between our headquarters in Philadelphia and NYC.

We’re friends. We’re sisters. We’re business partners. We’re motivators, encouragers and celebrators of one another’s lives, passions, dreams, talents … and of our own true selves.

But enough waxing poetic here: It’s pretty clear that we love one another. So for the sake of proving just how deep that love is — and to give you a glimpse into the Darla, Sammy & Julia that can’t always be captured through a Tweet, Foursquare check-in, Facebook update or even video — read on for a brief synopsis of what I love most about US.

Question from any RoadHug member: “Do you have your shit together?”

Response from any RoadHug member: “I told you, I gots my shit together!”

It’s what we say when someone is off task … [or checking their facebook/twitter/email AGAIN] … or just to say something ridiculous at any impromptu moment when pow-wowing.

We picked up the inside joke after staying with friends outside of Atlanta, when we were filming in Athens for production of the RoadHug pilot episode. The inspiration? The song “Ridin’ Solo” by Jason Derulo. Listen to it for the line — and trust us, you’ll start getting your shit together, too.

“HOLLER”

Sammy claims she coined this crazy catchphrase, but Darla says she was using holler way before she met her. But regardless of who brought holler into the RoadHug vernacular, all the girls are using it and it sounds-oh-so-hollerable.

Julia’s Allergies

Julia can’t eat a lot of things: Avocado, salmon, soy, dairy, ginger, gluten … see the issues here?

So when the girls are pow wowing and gotta eat, Darla’s cooking skills are really put to the test so Julia can enjoy a good meal that’s more interesting than the quinoa, sweet potato, eggs or all-natural chicken staples she can always be found eating.

When we actually hit the road, finding food for Julia will become a top priority on our list of  off-camera things to do. We’ve already endorsed Panera and Au Bon Pain as two fast food chains with chicken that Julia can stomach. Any other recs out there? We’re going to be eating a lot of chicken between the three of us …

“Is it Sammy endorsed?”

Speaking of endorsements, it’s not really an endorsement until Sammy says so.

Darla caught on to Sammy’s endorsing ways a few weeks ago, recognizing that Sammy liked to vocalize her seal of approval for everyone around her to here. So, in true Darla fashion, she began asking, “Is it Sammy endorsed?”

So when Sammy endorses something, you know the RoadHug girls are onto something good. Just sayin’.

Darla’s Tattoos

Darla, how many tattoos do you have again? 5? 6? 7?!

She just got a new one … and if you look closely enough, you can find some others on her upper back, lower back, lower stomach, shoulder and probably a few other spots that Sammy & Julia just haven’t been lucky enough to see [yet].

Sammy has 1 and Julia has 0. To keep up with Darla, maybe we should get a RoadHug tattoo to ink the bond between us.

Sammy’s Obsession with Running

The girls got an obsession with running that has her waking up at dawn to hit the pavement before meetings, or lacing up post all-day-shooting in Athens because her endorphins are low and she’s feeling runners depression.

How did Sammy get so obsessed? Well, Darla had a goal in the beginning of 2010 to “run 10 races in 2010.” Sammy had always been running for exercise, but she didn’t consider herself a runner. Darla inspired her to jump board the 10 races in 2010 campaign, and after a few months, Sammy was on the fast [literally] track to becoming a real runner.

Who are the best friends/business partners? The ones who inspire.

Darla’s Obsession with CrossFit

When she returned from traveling abroad [Dubai, India ... just to name a few of the spots she hit], Darla caught CrossFit fever.

What’s CrossFit? It’s a new trend in workout facilities that focuses on team training using personal trainers to coordinate and plan scheduled group classes.

You do a lot of sprinting. And a lot of lifting. And a lot of shouting, a lot of cheering, a lot of score keeping. It’s solo competition with competitors who actually want to see you succeed — probably the best thing to happen to fitness since step aerobics hit the average housewife’s living room.

Darla is unfortunately suffering from injuries now and is on a temporary break from her daily dose of CrossFit candy. Time to get up and go on a run with Sammy?

Or … maybe she can just chase boys with Julia …

Julia’s Obsession with Boys

Julia finds inspiration for her singer/songwriter career in all of the right places … with the cutest boys in NYC, that is.

When we hit the road, we all know that Julia is going to be hitting on [pun totally intended] the opposite sex just as much as Sammy will be hitting the pavement and Darla will be hitting the gym.

While the pickings in NYC aren’t too shabby, we’re excited to see what Julia unveils in American hometown cuties across the 50 states. Ted in Texas? Greg in Georgia? Chris in California?

It’s a road trip adventure all of its own … and Darla & Sammy don’t mind sitting back seat for the ride [until they get kicked out of the RV for Julia to have some private time with her new boy finds, that is ;-) ...]

Grain-free snacking

Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

just a wee sandwich, that's allI don’t eat a lot of grains. Why? Because. I don’t have to answer your questions. Oh, settle down. I’m just kidding. It’s a good question. I have a couple really good reasons stored up just for this occasion.

First, thanks to flat feet I have bad knees – I know, bad news when you’re 30 – worse news when I got it at the age of 15. And since gluten (a protein found in most grains) is linked to inflammation – something my joints frankly don’t need more of – I cut it out the majority of the time (something to keep in mind when you recommend a food stop, eh?).

Second, I’ve had a ton of sports injuries. Tons. I practically thrive on sports injuries. The problem is that my body doesn’t really dig ‘em and following an anti-inflammatory diet is just what the doctor orders when trying to recover from a sports injury…or eight.

Third, I try to eat unprocessed, but really freakin’ good foods and I try to stay as close to my food as possible. What does that mean? It means that I want to know the farm my vegetables came from. I want my cows to have eaten grass and not hormones before they hit my plate. And I want the whole trip to be as short and natural as possible. Most grains are tough to eat unprocessed so they end up going through a lot to get to our plates. A loaf of bread has had a hell of a trip to get to me. A bagel. Pasta. Lots of processing.

Forth, I love athletics as much as I love food. On a daily basis (when I’m in prime shape and not nursing anything that falls into the second category above) I’m running, biking, Olympic weightlifting and swimming. Vacations for me are rock climbing, snowboarding, kayaking and hiking. A beach isn’t the same without a football and a surfboard. That means that I want to be fit, lean and at peak performance. Through many many many trial and errors I have found that cutting out grains helps me tremendously in this regard. My food has fewer empty calories and is more nutrient dense.

All this being said, if I’m in Decatur, GA, I’m eating a Farm Burger and I’ll chow down on the bun. And you better believe I won’t be passing up a slice (not a loaf, a slice) of my Dad’s homemade whole wheat bread hot from the oven.

Mini-sandwich (hold the grains)

Cut a large zucchini into quarter-inch rounds. Spread some local wholegrain mustard on one side. Add a slab of natural turkey breast (easy to find – even at your local big box grocery store) and some grape tomato slices. Slap another zucchini round on top and you have yourself a wee snack. Repeat the process three more times and you have yourself a solid pre-bike ride treat.

From the archives: The very very beginning of RoadHug oversharing

Wednesday, August 18th, 2010

Yesterday one of my facebook friends posted this as his status:

shares too much in his songs ;-)

My response:

oh man…don’t even get me started on oversharing…i’ll overshare about my oversharing.

It made me think to myself. “Self, when did I start oversharing about RoadHug?” Want the answer? I thought so. Here, for your reading pleasure, is my first blog from the now defunct My Food Has Feet about the Wonderful Wacky World of Spunky Sunshine we call Sammy D. RoadHug was so different then…we had yet to meet Julia, we thought we would run the marathon together and it was called “Vegan Gravy & Tapered Jeans” for god’s sake.

P.S. Click on the link above. If for no other reason than to see how darn cute Ryan is. Oh yeah, and to hear how darn good his music is too. Maybe Julia needs to do a jam session at one of Ryan’s Club House Concerts.

And now…to the archives…

So, I’m up and running…again.

covered darla

Here.  Hmmm.

Not as I planned, but planning is so 1980 and not like cool 1980 fashion, but like dorky 1980 computer technology.  I’ll explain.  So, I closed the doors on my crazy summer of travel to “concentrate” on my classes and my internship at the Philadelphia Daily News.  Then I met Sammy.

Now we are planning a roadtrip, a book tour and a mutual love affair with the world and so…I’m blogging again (Uncle Jack, aren’t you proud?).  When you are (1) as all over the map as I am with (2) enough positive energy to wipe out a city block it is really frickin’ nice to meet someone who accomplishes both of those tasks with even more vigor.

I have also been in the process of converting my wordpress blog to a big girl blog (no offense wordpress, but you have gotten me this far and now I kind need to upgrade – you understand, right?) and I was going to cease all this here writing on the world wide web until after the upgrade, but I can’t wait.  We’re planning and rhyming and scheming and well, you need to be a part of this dammit.

Here’s Sammy‘s recent explanation of our…our…well, just read on will you?

In April, I will taking a road trip with Darla Synnestvedt, darlas.wordpress.com, to create a media campaign around my cross country venture and search for vintage clothing.

We will be heading south — learning, collaborating, and seeking new experiences that we can’t predict until they actually happen.

The project will be blogged, recorded, photographed, and promoted. Social media outlets, other blogs, maybe even the NYT or Discovery Channel? The pitches are endless, the opportunities … boundless.

Our working title is “Vegan Gravy & Tapered Jeans.” Darla will be in pursuit of food. I will be in pursuit of fashion.

And, in September, I will be running the Philadelphia Marathon. All 26.2 miles of it ;-)

Wait, Sammy…you’re running the marathon?  I want to run it too!

Top 5 reasons meetings on boats are more efficient than meetings that don’t happen on boats.

Monday, August 9th, 2010

Bikinis and meetings...the best combo ever.1. Taking vacation time suddenly becomes unnecessary.

2. “I don’t have anything with which to take notes” becomes a reasonable excuse to wrap it up (as does “I can’t hear you over the engine”).

3. Being underdressed isn’t really a problem. Neither is being overdressed…or dressed for that matter.

4. Getting a tan while conducting business counts as multi-tasking.

5. And finally, if your colleague says something you don’t agree with – just push her overboard.

When RoadHug Girls Get Together …

Wednesday, August 4th, 2010

When the RoadHug girls get together — anything can happen. If only we had a 24/7 video camera on us to capture the fun and the future of what is sure to be a crazy good time on the road exploring what this great country has to offer.

Cameras on the dashboard? You tell us if you think we’re worthy!

But because we don’t have that camera …. yet, here’s a glimpse of what was captured at last weekend’s pow wow at Lake Starlight in Hancock, PA. And yes — I taped it all! Note Darla & Julia pointing this out as I [terribly] belt out a Journey tune. Maybe I should leave the singing to Julia …

10 seconds of proof: Why Sammy D should never sing again

The hilarious story of chipmunk cheeks … and why we all want ‘em

Darla fixes up at a 5-course meal … using the kitchen’s “lingering” ingredients

Sammy mindlessly babbles about the fashion behind “distressed denim” [and Darla calls her out on her BS].

Julia admires the DIY firework display shot above Lake Starlight

3 girls. 20 cities. 1 RV.

Sunday, July 25th, 2010


We are RoadHugging today.

What does that mean exactly?

It means Darla, Julia and Sammy sitting in Julia’s apartment. 3 BlackBerries. 2 Macs. 1 PC. Learning all things facebook, twitter, foursquare and anything else social media that Sammy D has deemed necessary to cram into our gray matter.

It means reviewing the RoadHug updates since our last pow wow. What our attorneys have done. What our accountant says. What our business advisors, well, advise.

It also means scheduling our next pow wow (even though we’ve collectively known each other for about 6 months we can’t live long without all getting into the same room and stirring things up).

And…it means planning our pilot episode.

In…

Athens, GA.

Dirty South meet RoadHug. RoadHug meet the Dirty South.

BBM = BlaaaackBerrrry Maaaadness

Monday, July 19th, 2010

Julia, Sammy and I spend a lot of time together.

We also spend a lot of time with other people.

What we’ve been doing lately is spending a lot of time together with other people. Do you know what that accomplishes? A LOT (and in case the all-caps didn’t get your attention, I’ll emphasize it again…A LOT) of commentary about what we spend our time doing (especially since we tend to hang out with people who are the opposite of being afraid to voice an opinion).

Thanks to a couple of friends we simply refer to as “the boys,” we have learned that we are a tad bit fond of our BlackBerries. Did I say “a tad?” Maybe it’s more than a tad. Okay, a lot more than a tad. If I’m being really honest…we are 100% totally and completely DEPENDENT on our BlackBerries.

Case in point? Last weekend we spent two glorious days at one of the boys’ summer lake house in upstate PA. After completing our two scheduled phone conferences for the day (and checking our emails, texts, bbms, facebook statuses, four square accounts, uploading new profile pictures and tweeting at least 100 times)…the boys took our little communicative friends away. Locked. In a closet.

How did we fair? Well, truth be told…I was fine. Take technology away from me and I’ll gladly find something else to keep me occupied…a little swim in the lake maybe…or some wakeboarding…a quad trip…a piece of steak to grill. If I have nature and food to cook, I need little else.

Sammy? Well, Sammy had a tough time at first. That girl loves her social media and do you know what? Her social media loves her right back. After a small case of separation anxiety, an hour long sprint in the woods and some wine she barely noticed it was missing.

How did Julia do you ask? She was fine…for a couple hours and then…thanks to her ability to convince an Eskimo he should open up a sno-cone stand and those gorgeous batting eyelashes…she had her Blackberry back with minimal whining.

So, as a tribute to our BlackBerries and our willingness to be completely dependent upon them…I say thank you.

Thank you for sticking by us even when the things get rough (or signals get weak). Thank you for being there when we are alone on the subway late at night and avoiding eye contact with that creepy guy. Thank you for paying us attention when our date excuses himself and then takes too long in the bathroom. Thank you for tirelessly waking me up when I ask you to every morning. Thank you…for being you.

Network extensions are almost as good as hair extensions.

Thursday, July 15th, 2010

Fireworks are a great way to end a damn fine evening.

RoadHug is in the business of entertainment. RoadHug is also in the business of collecting mentors and this evening was no exception. Thanks to my ever-expanding network (which is similar in size to my ever-expanding biceps – totally self-proclaimed), the girls rolled into a beautifully designed apartment on the Upper West side. I, of course, made myself at home in the kitchen and whipped up a feast for our hosts which consisted of two corporate art advisors and a doctor who is saving the world one vaccine at a time. More importantly, the night’s hosts are three very successful people who love RoadHug so much they wanted to spend a night plotting its inevitable success.

The wine was good, conversation was great and the future of RoadHug looks brighter than ever. But, since I’m “the food one” I can’t help but get a little too excited about the meal.

The evening started by scrawling a menu on a scrap of paper while pushing a cart through the jam-packed second floor of Fairway (a self-proclaimed market “like no other market”). I gathered all the ingredients I wanted, but this shopping trip convinced me even more that I’m the roadhugger that belongs in the woods. So many people and so many food options make this chef a wee bit dizzy (more on this in a future post).

What did I feed these lovely people? Well, thanks for asking…

The munching began with steamed artichokes dipped in a balsamic chive aioli and a cheese board complete with olives, Rose-infused salami and a fig almond cake.

Breaking down the main course we had…Chicken breasts braised in a pear, walnut, raisin broth. Baked zucchini stuffed with a sauté of leeks, celery, mushrooms and cranberries. And a spinach and endive salad with a mango avocado salsa.

Want to know the best part of the menu? I made it all up. No recipes. No prior experience. No measurements. No stress.

Take that Rachel Ray.

Yup, you heard it hear first…I just challenged the maven herself.

Bring it.

My Top 3 Health Ailments … Solved at the Beach

Wednesday, July 7th, 2010
beach scene A shot of the beach in the Hamptons

So truth: I’m writing to you from a beach club in Southamptons, Long Island.

Yes, I’m lucky. I’m here after the holiday weekend, enjoying the relaxed atmosphere of what my host is calling the “mid week non-rush.” In other words, when you want to come to the beach to relax, don’t come on the weekend. Take off mid-week to find the peace and solace that your body and mind need, away from the crowds, curbs and craziness of whatever location you’re escaping from.

Beyond just providing a safe haven from the 100 degree + temps of New York City, I’ve realized during my stay that the beach is a natural cure for three of my most hated [and annoyingly reoccurring] health ailments.

Sammy D’s Ailments:

**Acne &  uneven skin tones**

**Unsound sleep [waking up from noises, anxiety, bad sleeping patterns, etc.]**

**Sore muscles [from exercise - either deliberate, or general running around the city]**

What I’ve recognized from my three-day reprieve on the sand and surf of NY’s Long Island: You need not find a dermatologist, a therapist, or a masseuse to solve the above ailments.

Just go to the beach!

So let’s repeat the top, and I’ll give you reasons why each bullet point can be solved 100% cost-free in a 100% all-natural way at whatever XYZ beach is nearest you.

Sammy D’s Ailments — Beach Solved

**Acne & uneven skin tones**

SOLVED: The salt water is an all-natural anti-bacterial remedy, clearing the skin of existing dirt/oil/grime without aggravating pre-existing blemishes.

Home solution! Grind sea salt, mix into warm water do it dissolves, and stick in fridge so it cools. Make a batch every week and use as an astringent or a face rinse.

**Unsound sleep [waking up from noises, anxiety, bad sleeping patterns, etc.]**

SOLVED: The sea air isn’t regular ole’ city or suburban air — it’s charged with negative ions from the element that is the salt of the sea. What do negative ions do? They help us to absorb more oxygen — which balances levels of our bodies’ naturally occurring sleep chemical serotonin, thus enabling a sounder, solid sleep.

**Sore muscles [from exercise - either deliberate, or general running around the city]**

SOLVED: Ever wonder why a cut will heal faster after hitting the water of the sea? That’s because saltwater promotes faster healing and pain-relief. Remember that fisherman from decades ago didn’t have Neosporin to heal their many cuts and bruises.

When it comes to sore muscles, the water of the sea offers similar homeopathic results. After a hard run on the beach, I took a dip in the ocean to relieve my muscles of built up liquid from my body’s heaving pounding. How does the sea do that? By opening my pores and thereby enabling my lymph system to clear my body of toxins and unneeded fluids [that may result in hurting muscles, joints, tendons, and all that athletic body jargon].

Second truth: I’m no medicine woman, and sometimes a quick trip to CVS is needed to give quick-relief to the above ailments. But when it comes to preventative measures? The salt, sea, and surroundings of the shore are where it’s at for Sammy D.

My new baby

Tuesday, July 6th, 2010

Drunken chicken, some grilled asparagus, prosciutto wrapped melon and a plum vinaigrette.

Grilling can be intimidating…there is something about cooking over an open flame that makes even the most confident kitchen chef a bit antsy in the pants. How do I know this? I was once right there with you. Now, I love my grill like I would love a new Bentley. And even though I managed to singe half my head, burn the hair off my right arm and give my eyelashes and eyebrows a substantial trim, I still adore taking the cover off my grill, cranking open the propane and lighting her up. So, in order to help you love your grill even remotely as much as I love mine, here are a couple dishes to help you get started.

1/Grilled Veggies in honor of Sammy D. Slice zucchini, yellow squash and carrots in quarters lengthwise. Coat them in olive oil, kosher salt and fresh ground pepper (if you don’t own kosher salt or a pepper mill, go get them now…go). Throw them on the grill and close the cover. Let them get almost black, flip ‘em. Blacken again, pull ‘em off and enjoy them hot or room temperature.

BBQ Salmon a la Alex.

2/Alex’s Barbeque Salmon made just for Darla. Take a salmon fillet with the skin still on and generously coat the skin side in kosher salt. Flip it flesh side up and drench it in barbeque sauce (homemade or store bought). Throw it on the grill on high. Carefully flip it once and cook to desired doneness. Extra tip: If the skin doesn’t get done enough, toss it in a pan until crispy and add it on top of a salad.

3/Drunken Chicken to feed the pickiest Julia. Open a can of beer, pour half of it into your mouth. Rinse the chicken, pat it dry and coat the inside and outside with kosher salt and fresh ground pepper (see a pattern here?). Sit that baby on the beer can (you can buy a drunken chicken holder for about $5 most anywhere you buy grills) and cook on indirect heat until the juices run clear (over an hour).

Remember, keep it simple. Nothing has to be complex in the kitchen or on the grill. Say no to recipes. Yes to grills. And hello to summer.